Foundational guidance
A clear and structured foundation for parents beginning the shidduch process. Approach shidduchim with calm, clarity, and the right perspective — before decisions and pressure begin.
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Shidduch guidance for Chassidish parents
Professional, Torah-respectful guidance. Clear strategy, emotional preparation, and practical tools to navigate the shidduch process with confidence.
Questions? Call 845-459-2385 or WhatsApp
The Keshurim Course Series
Keshurim – Shidduch Guidance Course for Parents
$597 $1,297 Sale
Your step-by-step guide to navigating the shidduch journey with confidence and clarity. Practical tools rooted in both Torah values and relationship wisdom, to help you support your child through the shidduch process.
- A structured series of video lessons that guide you step by step
- Designed for Chassidish parents who want to empower their children and build strong, trusting relationships
- Immediate access after purchase — watch at your own pace, return anytime
Bonus: a FREE deck of Besho Cards. After your purchase, email kesheremail@gmail.com to claim your free deck.
Support for every stage
Advanced strategies
Clear, practical strategies for complex shidduch situations: manage expectations, interpret information wisely, respond to challenges calmly, and decide with confidence.
Personalized support
One-on-one guidance based on your family’s specific needs. Think through complex situations and move forward with clarity, confidence, and sensitivity.
New · Ships by tomorrow
Besho Cards
$47 $67
A set of 40 thoughtfully crafted conversation cards to help a boy and girl get to know each other during the shidduch process. Each card has a meaningful question in both English and Yiddish, making the besho meeting more natural, engaging, and productive.
Perfect for shadchanim, parents, and couples navigating the shidduch process.
Order Besho CardsTaking the course? Your first deck is free — see the bonus above.
A few questions from the deck
No. 2 ♦
What gives you the most satisfaction in life?
No. 12 ♦
How would you like a Shabbos table to look?
No. 3 ♦
וואס מיינט ביי אייך יראת שמים?
No. 18 ♦
כדי צוויי מענטשען זאלן זיך אויסקומען דארף מען אייביג נאכגעבן?
40 questions in the deck, each in English and Yiddish
Clarity and calm for every family
Who it’s for
Chassidish parents who are going through the shidduch process with their children now, or expect to start soon — especially families who feel confused, stressed, or afraid of making the wrong decision.
Practical, not theoretical
Real tools for communication, emotional awareness, and decision-making.
Respectful, not judgmental
Profound respect for Torah and tradition, with modern relationship understanding.
Clear, not confusing
We teach parents how to think, communicate, and truly listen to their child.
Built for the long term
Not only finding a match — building a healthy, lasting marriage.
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Stories of calmer, happier homes
“Keshurim has been a lifeline for our family! The guidance and support we received were invaluable in navigating the shidduch process. We highly recommend their services!”
Rivka S.
“After working with Keshurim, I felt calmer, more confident, and more connected to my family. It changed everything for us.”
Anonymous Parent
“Keshurim taught us how to communicate without fighting. It gave us hope and connection we never thought possible.”
Anonymous Couple
“We started our marriage with respect, understanding, and trust because of Keshurim. It was the best decision we made.”
Anonymous Couple
- “Our home is calmer now.”
- “My child felt supported instead of pressured.”
- “We handled the shidduch process with less fear and more clarity.”
About Keshurim
Guidance for a connected future
Keshurim was born from years of working closely with families in the Chassidish community. We saw recurring patterns of confusion, pressure, and uncertainty in the shidduch process. Our mission is to provide clear, Torah-respectful guidance, fostering strong, warm, and emotionally connected marriages.
Founded and led by Rabbi Shloimy (Hearsh) Ekstein
Shidduch & Relationship Specialist
“You don’t have to go through this alone.”
Need help with your own situation? Schedule a private consultation, or send a quick question on WhatsApp.
Contact
Phone845-459-2385
WhatsAppSend a message
Book onlineSchedule a consultation
Emailkesheremail@gmail.com
Opening hours
Monday – Thursday: 9:00 AM – 5:00 PM
Friday: 9:00 AM – 12:00 PM
Location
130 Maple Ave
New City, NY 10956
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